I’m not calling him a cheater just he tells me he only wants me n *** me n he’s a Puerto Rican

You’ve been talking to someone you knew was married (separated is not divorced). You knew he was willing to entertain intimacy and a relationship with someone outside of his marriage.

I wouldn’t be able to marry a person who was willing to be with me while still married. I’m SURE that it’s possible for people to find their person if they’re with someone else, but that’s pretty gross that he didn’t get divorced before starting anything with anyone else. And I wouldn’t be able to trust that he’d be faithful to me when he was talking to women and messing around while still married.