Every so often I get a message from a frustrated extroverted woman who is smitten with an introverted guy. Usually said woman has already looked through my blog posts, desperately searching for answers to her dating dilemmas. She is having trouble interpreting the introverted guy’s behavior. She wants to know if he hasn’t made a move because he isn’t interested or because he’s introverted. Other questions that often come up are:

“Should I try to hold back, and be more reserved around him?” “Can an introvert extrovert relationship work?” “Why is he so flirty on Facebook and then barely talks to me in real life?”

Being the hopeless romantic INFP that I am, I do my best to help these women. Below is the advice I typically give. You might find it surprising.

What I tell extrovert women who introvert , doesn’t mean that he is incapable of pursuing a woman he is interested in.